A Sudden Change Of Heart

Recently a friend I know briefly break up with her boyfriend. I was told she cried very hard. I got to know she is utterly heart-broken. Like my Mum describes -- it was like a flying ball that she never expected yet it hit her in the face. Ya it was a sudden change of heart. She didn't or rather never expect it. And her boyfriend was a darling. Perhaps perfect in every sense to her.

But this is what i have to say to her. Brat Pitt was perfect to me in every sense until he cheated on Jeniffer. Women, that is we always see what we choose to see. It's a by default feature in most women. If this is not an apprioriate example then look at Nicole Kidman. Her action spells her belief -- the perfect man who does not love me is not worth my tears.

I know what I am going to say will not make sense to you. Cos you have decided that this man, this perfect man has left you for no apparent reason and this shall be the reason that hurt. But I hope you have heard of this quote -- a bird in my hand is better than two birds in the bushes. And think about this, do you know a few good man? If you do, ask yourself why didn't it hurt that they don't love you?

Dried your tears,gal. He left you for a reason. Let him know it is not a reason, it is a mistake. Stand up and work for that look on his face!

Feeling sad will not make you feel better. Doing something for yourself ( now that you don't have a boyfriend to care for, you should have more time and attention for yourself. You are worth it. A million times more than a guy who didn't treasure you...). Choose to be happy.