Live According to Your Standards

You are the Master of your life. And yes this is your life. So live according to your own standards.

What do you mean you may ask. For example, I have a friend A who will always leave her cutlery on the table when we go out to eat and in that particular group, there is another friend B who will have to put her cutlery on a piece of tissue. Cos of their different in habits, B will always tell A off for her lack of concern for hygience. A will always feel that she is rather 'dirty'. Yet she will always repeat her habit cos like I say it's her habit. And she will always feel bad whenever B is around. Cos she is not living according to her own standards.

There are times I feel unhappy, rather worthless. And it's not until I ran into this ya ya colleague of mine that I realised I have been feeling a certain way cos I am not living according to my standards. So Joey thanks again.

This is what happened : Joey was serving a cup of coffee when a few drops spilled over. She quickly wiped it off with her fingers but was stopped by our boss who changed the saucer for her. She complained to me during the break. She said, "I will not shortchanged my pax but do not ask me to serve them according to your style." I must say she is hardworking and well liked among the colleagues and pax so she really didn't shortchanged the pax nor made her colleagues work harder. She was just working according to her style, her own standards.

So next time when you feel down ask yourself, "Is this your standards or another's."

Hope you have a happy life!