The Romantic Movies
I was in New York recently. And one of the channels featured 'Along Came Polly' and '50 First Dates' back to back.
After watching both the movies, I felt very touched by the male leads' sincerity and love for the female leads. I really envy them and of course I wonder and question if they are for real. Will a guy who calculates and weighs all possibilities casts his carefulness for love? Will you ever love anyone enough to renew your love for love daily? Are those romantic movies created so that we can still believe and hope?(... maybe this is the one...) Or are they just reminders, just recollection of another's story?
And this brings me to ask if a man loves a woman will he continues to live his life or compromises so that their lives can 'tangle'. Is his compromising too much to ask? Is it unfair? So what izzit really -- to live as 2 individuals or to change and risk living like mirror images?
Of course the next question is is 'renewing' your love for that one woman daily too much to ask? Izzit?
I wonder...
Guess only God knows.
After watching both the movies, I felt very touched by the male leads' sincerity and love for the female leads. I really envy them and of course I wonder and question if they are for real. Will a guy who calculates and weighs all possibilities casts his carefulness for love? Will you ever love anyone enough to renew your love for love daily? Are those romantic movies created so that we can still believe and hope?(... maybe this is the one...) Or are they just reminders, just recollection of another's story?
And this brings me to ask if a man loves a woman will he continues to live his life or compromises so that their lives can 'tangle'. Is his compromising too much to ask? Is it unfair? So what izzit really -- to live as 2 individuals or to change and risk living like mirror images?
Of course the next question is is 'renewing' your love for that one woman daily too much to ask? Izzit?
I wonder...
Guess only God knows.
6 Comments:
I guess humans are all prone to complacency.
And yes, I'm referring to both genders. When two person get together, after a while when everything is stable, people forget that love should not be kept only in their hearts, you should show, say, express it.
A simple "I love you" every morning and to really mean it, a nice stalk/bouquet of flower(s) without it being her birthday, a nice massage when he/she is tired.
Most couples do love one another, it's just that they forget that they need to express love regularly.
So it will be impossible to find a 'along came Polly'-cum-'50 first dates' guy right?
It's possible, but u'll have to put in the effort too.
And a little hinting to him every now and will help too.
It is always the hinting part that gets to the gals. Look at the guys in 'Along came Polly', the gal didn't hint him to take the road less travelled. Look at the guy in '50 1St Dates', the gal won't remember to hint him you know. Why can't it be self-induced?
my 2 honeys...
those are HOLLYWOOD movies.
we should all marry for money..
That is a wake up call. Ck, what are we thinking!
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