Your bickering Galfriend
Do you guys ever wonder why on earth were you in love with your bickering galfriends in the first place? Why are you still with her in the second? Love... Makes me wonder all the time. What is this thing, we call love?
Whenever I watched 'Everyone loves Raymond', that bickering couple in the show. They are so ... imperfect... but yet they are perfect. Their lives seem to be overloaded with uncalled- for arguments, petty fights. Shouldn't the perfect marriage be like a calm ocean? Shouldn't married couples always give in to each other? Shouldn't they avoid arguments? They shouldn't... It's ok to fight. That is, provided that you will learn from these arguments and thereafter forgive and go on with the relationship. You know, not learning from our mistakes is one of our greatest mistakes. How on earth would you think that the outcome will change if you never change the way you deal with it? How do you shut your bickering galfriend up when she tells you do not look at other gals in their presence but your eyes nearly popped out at the sight of a sexy one in their presence? This is the real life, the real thing. And this is what relationship is all about. Getting used to each other. Learning to live another imperfect human. Boy it's a lot of work. Pretty shitty too.
Guys just let me tell you when your galfriend bicker do you think they are happy? Do you think it makes their world go round jus by making you miserable? Actually I can't speak for all gals. But for me, when I 'quarrel' with my boyfriend, it hurts me. I love him. I adore him. I want him to be happy. But I love myself too. I adore myself too. I want to be happy too. Hence there are times whereby I get angry and upset and I 'quarrel' with him. Cos although it's sucky to quarrel it's part of the deal, the package. I wish I could be the demure, loving galfriend always but cos I love you, I have to bicker, to complain, to sulk. Cos I want to be with you forever. Forever, that is a long time. But I do want.
Hence forgive me when I sulk, complain, get on your nerves,etc. (And you better change your 'methods' if you want to shut your bickering galfriend up.)
Hee2. You take care in Sin ya! Don't allow the children to bully you.
Whenever I watched 'Everyone loves Raymond', that bickering couple in the show. They are so ... imperfect... but yet they are perfect. Their lives seem to be overloaded with uncalled- for arguments, petty fights. Shouldn't the perfect marriage be like a calm ocean? Shouldn't married couples always give in to each other? Shouldn't they avoid arguments? They shouldn't... It's ok to fight. That is, provided that you will learn from these arguments and thereafter forgive and go on with the relationship. You know, not learning from our mistakes is one of our greatest mistakes. How on earth would you think that the outcome will change if you never change the way you deal with it? How do you shut your bickering galfriend up when she tells you do not look at other gals in their presence but your eyes nearly popped out at the sight of a sexy one in their presence? This is the real life, the real thing. And this is what relationship is all about. Getting used to each other. Learning to live another imperfect human. Boy it's a lot of work. Pretty shitty too.
Guys just let me tell you when your galfriend bicker do you think they are happy? Do you think it makes their world go round jus by making you miserable? Actually I can't speak for all gals. But for me, when I 'quarrel' with my boyfriend, it hurts me. I love him. I adore him. I want him to be happy. But I love myself too. I adore myself too. I want to be happy too. Hence there are times whereby I get angry and upset and I 'quarrel' with him. Cos although it's sucky to quarrel it's part of the deal, the package. I wish I could be the demure, loving galfriend always but cos I love you, I have to bicker, to complain, to sulk. Cos I want to be with you forever. Forever, that is a long time. But I do want.
Hence forgive me when I sulk, complain, get on your nerves,etc. (And you better change your 'methods' if you want to shut your bickering galfriend up.)
Hee2. You take care in Sin ya! Don't allow the children to bully you.
posted by Count your Blessings at 4:51 AM
1 Comments:
I enjoy reading your blog.
A couple that doesn't bicker or argue always feels strange to me. When two individuals are involved, there are bound to be differences in opinions.
And yeah, learning to live with someone who isn't perfect might seem to be shitty but when the person is gone, you'll realise that the person was perfect after all.
CK
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