Looking for a Girlfriend?
I was reading 'Her World' last night and was truly entertained by the article 'these men want to marry you'. Firstly I must say I understand why they are still single and available despite being a 'good catch'. One piece of advice I will give them if I ever see them ' Wake up your idea!'. Secondly when all women understands that men fall head over heels over pretty gals, men know what we go for too. However it's a 'in general' kind of thing. You know, in general, women like a knight in shining amour, a men who showers them with presents, a faithful parnter, finally a man who does his housekeeping,etc,etc. You do know it's an inexhautible list right.
You see when you are out there doing your hunting for galfriends, gals are doing the same thing. When you are listing down your many, many small requests, they are too. When you secretly cancel someone's name from your list you must know your name might have never exist in their list.
The problems abour relationships nowadays is that there are so many changes. Change in our attitudes, in our basic traits, our needs. But truthfully relationships are never too difficult ( saying this although I am struggling with me. But I do not worry. Cos I believe we have the basics jus doing some small repairs here and there. Hee2. Right, Mel?) . First you must know and understand in all relationships, it involves 2 persons therefore coupled with your attitudes, basic traits, needs, etc, there are the other party's too. Whatever that you are thinking, the other person might have thought about it too. If you feel angry about some things, she might too. If she gets on your nerves, you might too. Basically it boils down to lots of communication and sparing a thought for the other party. A relationship is not all about you nor her. It's about the 2 of you. If it's all about you or her, it won't work cos there are 2 sets of targets to meet in a 2 persons's game, fulfilling one does not help and most probably will harm the relationship. No one can be at the receiving end forever.
So if you are looking for a galfriend, start doing the right things. Communicate. And always spare a thought for her. And ask her to do the same thing.
Gook luck, guys!
You see when you are out there doing your hunting for galfriends, gals are doing the same thing. When you are listing down your many, many small requests, they are too. When you secretly cancel someone's name from your list you must know your name might have never exist in their list.
The problems abour relationships nowadays is that there are so many changes. Change in our attitudes, in our basic traits, our needs. But truthfully relationships are never too difficult ( saying this although I am struggling with me. But I do not worry. Cos I believe we have the basics jus doing some small repairs here and there. Hee2. Right, Mel?) . First you must know and understand in all relationships, it involves 2 persons therefore coupled with your attitudes, basic traits, needs, etc, there are the other party's too. Whatever that you are thinking, the other person might have thought about it too. If you feel angry about some things, she might too. If she gets on your nerves, you might too. Basically it boils down to lots of communication and sparing a thought for the other party. A relationship is not all about you nor her. It's about the 2 of you. If it's all about you or her, it won't work cos there are 2 sets of targets to meet in a 2 persons's game, fulfilling one does not help and most probably will harm the relationship. No one can be at the receiving end forever.
So if you are looking for a galfriend, start doing the right things. Communicate. And always spare a thought for her. And ask her to do the same thing.
Gook luck, guys!
posted by Count your Blessings at 1:42 AM
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