Will you have a divorce? Look at your family tree!

Ya I was informed of that recently. If your parents are divorced you will most likely be too!

I smiled politely to that person who told me that. My parents were divorced after 28 years of marriage. Why not 2 years, 3 years? Why 28 years? Cos there is a limit to tolerance. Yes, there is. Sadly...

Marriage I believe needs more than love (told you it's over-rated). Committment. Giving. Lots of giving. Forgiving. Forgetting. And remembering too. Lots of work. And yes you can just sit back and relax. Do all that you want. But be warned you are then welcoming a divorce.

Never be complacent. Never take things for granted.

No one says it's easy.

And to the person who said that crap to me. Just thank God that you are lucky for you have a loving father. And I thank God that I am lucky for I have a loving and strong will Mum.

Like the chinese saying -- who wants to be bald if they have hair? You?