I used to have a Father.

I used to have a father. I think to put it this way is quite correct. Even when he threatened to disguise me, did and said so many unnecessary things, I believe they are words of anger.

But with every letter he sent to the lawyer, he establish that he is a surivor more than a father. Money is more important to him than us, his family. Perhaps he believes we abandon him. We did. The ironic thing is , he was the one who initiate this, encourage this and allow this. Never offend the people you love or whom you depend your happiness upon. Not the prettiest thing to say but believe me, this is the golden iron rule ( I discourage bending it, not even an inch).

One day, should you people get marry, remember love your spouse. They might over the years become different people. Ugly, nosy, petty, etc but they will be the people who go through life with you. Or if you have second just follow what my father did. You will lose them in no time